Condom Culture- How to Put It On Ok, so the big moment's arrived; you're about to have sex for the first time, and so far you're cool, calm and collected - heck, you're so clued up you've even remembered to buy some condoms. Right, here goes….erm….just one problem though, HOW DO I PUT THE BLOOMIN' THING ON! Don't worry! You're not alone, just like learning anything new - putting on a condom for the first time can be a bit tricky (and unlike learning to ride a bike you can't just practice out in the garden in front of your parents). Never fear, help is at hand with this neat guide to Condom Culture. 1. It's probably a good idea to practice putting one on in the bathroom if you're going to 'get some'. Don't worry there's nothing wrong with this, as long as your mum doesn't come in...so lock the door! If anything it will definitely make you look like you know what you're doing and you won't be nervous during the 'big event', which will make it go smoother and you'll enjoy it more. 2. So when you put it on what do you do? Firstly, you have to put the condom on when the penis is erect and (importantly) before there is any contact between your bits and your partner's body. (Did you know that fluid released from the penis during the early stages of an erection can contain sperm and organisms that can cause STI's?). If you are not circumcised make sure you pull back your foreskin before you put on the condom. (For more information on STI's GO HERE!) Right, carefully now, tear along one side of the foil wrapper (making sure not to rip the condom inside), and remove the rubbery little fella. 3. It's really important to remember that air trapped inside a condom could cause it to break, so to avoid this you should squeeze the closed end of the condom between your forefinger and thumb - oh yeah, and make sure that the roll is on the outside. 4. While still squeezing the closed end, use your other hand to unroll the condom gently down the full length of the penis. If the condom decides to roll up or comes off completely during sex then you should roll it back up or replace it completely before you start again! However if you feel that there has been spillage of cum then it is best to stop completely, wash the cum away with soap and water and ask an expert at a clinic about emergency contraception. (What about all those myths surrounding condoms? GO HERE! ) 5. Once you've done your business, remember to withdraw the penis while it is still erect by holding the condom firmly in place. Yup, and don't remove the condom until the penis is fully withdrawn, keeping the penis and condom clear from contact with your partner's body. 6. Ok, and last but definitely not least - dispose of the used condom hygienically -wrap the condom in a tissue and place it in a bin, and always remember: NEVER USE A CONDOM MORE THAN ONCE. (What other forms of contraception are available, and where exactly can I buy condoms from? GO HERE!) At that's it, pretty simple huh? It's really not that difficult, and pretty soon you'll be able to do it with your eyes closed… Remember! - condoms are the only way of protecting yourself against STI's AND unwanted pregnancy! (Always be aware that sex under the age of 16 is illegal) Read Related Links
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